How are you giving…?

Giving to someone expecting them to reciprocate feels icky.

Give unattached. Knowing you are abundantly provided for.

Have you ever received a gift from someone and then they constantly remind you how great they are for getting for the gift?! Or every time they see you, they ask about the gift?!

Yeah, you know.

How does that feel to you?

Do you enjoy receiving gifts from them?

My guess is probably not.

And while we can’t change people, we can use examples like this to check in on how we are showing up as givers.

Are we giving attached? Expecting something back from that particular person? If so, this comes from a place of lack and you’ll want to do some introspection.

Or  giving unattached? Simply because you know there’s plenty where that came from and you know you’re abundantly supported? If so, great! You’re aware that abundance is all around you and you are provided for.

How are you giving??

Because, whether they say it or not, people can feel the difference.