It’s not an attraction problem…

You're doing all the inner and outer work, but you're still not attracting the clients you want.

It's not an attraction problem.

It's a receiving problem.

When we don't feel worthy or deserving of money or love, we close ourselves off to receiving in an attempt to protect ourselves from being hurt. But we go through the motions to align ourselves and say all the right affirmations and clear all the negative energy, but still nothing. It's like trying to open a locked door without a key- we'll stand there and struggle and bang our heads against the wall, because all the things we're doing just aren't working.

Fortunately, receiving is a skill that can be taught. Yes, we can learn how to receive the abundance that is ours by Divine right.

This is something I work with my clients on a lot, because as moms, we are constantly giving and the idea of receiving without guilt can feel weird and incredibly uncomfortable.

But here's a simple exercise...

The next time someone does something nice for you, just say Thank you- that's it. Whether it's a compliment or opening the door for you or evening letting you pull out onto the road ahead of them. Just say thank you. Don't over compensate and compliment them back or try to out give them, simply receive. Breath. Take some deep breathes and allow the good deed to resonate with you. Allow yourself to receive. And allow others the supreme pleasure of giving to you.

It's going to feel incredible weird the first few times, especially if it's a compliment. But receive it, feel it, own it. Just sit in the uncomfortableness of the compliment for a few minutes and know that you are safe. No one expects anything from you. You don't have to over give to them. You are worthy to receive.

Receiving benefits both you and the giver- its a win-win.

Think of a time when you gave to someone and how great it made you feel when they fully received what you gave them. Receive what others give to you so they can feel that some greatness of giving.

PS- Another simple trick is to begin to tell yourself that it is easy to receive- "It's easy for me to receive."