Are you set up for success or…?

Are you setting yourself up for success or disappointment?

This question came to my mind last night as I sat in the tub.

I’ll be honest, I’ve been struggling a lot lately and haven’t felt like myself. So, I’ve gotten even more intentional with the time I spend with myself. and as this question came to mind, I realized I wasn’t setting myself up for success.

Instead, I realized I was constantly preparing myself to be disappointed. And that’s exactly what was happening,

I was disappointing myself and being disappointed by everyone around me.

So this morning, I went back to the basics and set myself up for success…

  1. Decided today would be a good day, last night.

  2. Gave myself success markers that were not determined by anyone else. For instance, did I get my workout in? Did I smile today? Was I present? Are my kids alive? 😆

But making success something I could control, I know I can go to sleep tonight knowing I was successful and it will encourage me to show up again tomorrow.

Are you set up for success??

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